Friday, October 14, 2011

Marriage

I have to admit it first that I have no capability enough in the speaking of marriage.
But of course, the idea was not just landing in my head without any specific reason.
Well at least there were bunch of weddings I attended last month.

From my point of view, a marriage is not just putting the marvelous ring in your finger.
It's more than promise, and  moreover it has its own soul.


Let's take a little time of wondering..
When you wake up, u must have portrayed the same face next to your pillow, in every single morning!
Geez!

Yeah it's sweet.. For the some firsts..
How about 5 years past? 15 years? 50 years?
Do you still feel it as sweet as the beginning?
How do you even keep it long-lasting when your husband's terrible habit is sucks for you?
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"menurut gue 'kasih dan saling menghormati' yang bikin pernikahan itu berarti dan bisa langgeng sampe kakek-nenek." - Verawati

"married itu uda BUKAN SAATNYA PENJAJAKAN LAGI, melainkan SAATNYA PENERIMAAN DENGAN TULUS" - Shinta Sendjaja

"kalo udah punya anak, anak2 lu yang bakal jadi prioritas utama. Jadi apa yang buat kita tetep bisa bertahan dalam sebuah pernikahan itu adalah kedewasaan dan konsistensi kita atas komitmen yg udah kita buat sama pasangan kita" - Aulia Putri Utami



For me,
marriage = marry-for-ages
It means you are accepting all the consequences when you signed it up.
And it is for long term, dear..
Because you are marrying the whole package,
even it means you have to get up earlier than the sun for just serving his breakfast a bowl of oat..
Because it's what marriage means..
Yeaa
marriage = marry-for-ages



Tuesday, October 11, 2011

Goodbye Auntie

After the long journey,
now you are back.
Back to The Highest.

Let we cherish the moments passed,
drown in the shadow of your face.
What you have left is what we own to be memorized.

We are grateful to have such a great aunt like you.
You are always an auntie for us,
a friend for us,
a sister for us.



Goodbye, beloved auntie.
May you rest in peace,
Auntie Dian Aristea.