But of course, the idea was not just landing in my head without any specific reason.
Well at least there were bunch of weddings I attended last month.
From my point of view, a marriage is not just putting the marvelous ring in your finger.
It's more than promise, and moreover it has its own soul.
Let's take a little time of wondering..
When you wake up, u must have portrayed the same face next to your pillow, in every single morning!
Geez!
Yeah it's sweet.. For the some firsts..
How about 5 years past? 15 years? 50 years?
Do you still feel it as sweet as the beginning?
How do you even keep it long-lasting when your husband's terrible habit is sucks for you?
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"menurut gue 'kasih dan saling menghormati' yang bikin pernikahan itu berarti dan bisa langgeng sampe kakek-nenek." - Verawati
"married itu uda BUKAN SAATNYA PENJAJAKAN LAGI, melainkan SAATNYA PENERIMAAN DENGAN TULUS" - Shinta Sendjaja
For me,
marriage = marry-for-ages
It means you are accepting all the consequences when you signed it up.
And it is for long term, dear..
Because you are marrying the whole package,
even it means you have to get up earlier than the sun for just serving his breakfast a bowl of oat..
Because it's what marriage means..
Yeaa
marriage = marry-for-ages